Plan to keep a copy of the book on your nightstand for as long as it takes you to follow through, one thread at a time. Consider buying a copy for a close Christian friend or mentor so that you can pray about and discuss it together.
I'll share one line from page 203: "As you forgive the one who betrayed you, you will find yourself talking differently about him, thinking differently about him, and extending mercy to him. This kind of forgiveness invites you in to the process yourself, recognizing that you can extend true forgiveness only if you have been on the receiving end of it."~ Reader Review
by Laura Booz
My only reservation in handing you a book is that a book can be devoured in one evening, while the process of healing from sexual betrayal takes a much longer time.
By Hara Estroff Marano, Shirley Glass on Psychology Today
Sometimes people will open windows but not put up walls. Sometimes they put up walls but don't open the windows. Unless you do both, you cannot rebuild safety and trust in the marriage.
Faithful & True (formerly Faithful and True Ministries) is a Christian counseling center specializing in the treatment of individuals and couples struggling because of sexual purity/infidelity.